A source told TMZ that Ray J has since bailed his girlfriend out of jail and got her a lawyer.
Ray J was afraid his girlfriend was going to pull a murder-suicide -- offing him and then herself -- just days after rapper Earl Hayes did the same ... He repeatedly mentioned the Hayes murder-suicide -- and that he attempted, but failed, to take Love's gun.
He's also had women on his arm like Karrine Steffans, Monica Leon, Lil Kim, Whitney Houston (!
Ray J's girlfriend Princess Love was arrested in New Orleans after allegedly beating him up.
The reality star reveals, “Ray and I are great friends and I have nothing but the utmost respect for him and his family.