Glenda Sessi, 41, an actress from South London, has never been married and has no children.
She has been dating Aubrey Kurlansky, 51, a graphic designer, also from London and a divorced father-of-three, for five months.
I repeat: Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. This has been my personal policy for the past three years – no committed relationship, no sex – and it’s worked very well for me.
Getting back into the dating game can be tough, especially if you just got out of an LTR.
However, there’s no set timetable or finite number of dates that will let you know when it’s time to give it up. That’s what you get for playing by a made-up set of rules. As a woman, your job is not to come up with an arbitrary number of dates, like the U. coming up with a pull out date for our soldiers in Iraq. Being newly back on the dating scene I’ve been wrestling with this as not only a personal moral issue but also wanting to know other perspecitves.