I've been in love with my boy-friends on a few different occasions.
There was the guy senior year in high school who I had a huge crush on even though he asked a tall freshman to winter formal.
IT's NOT that she's "too busy" becasue she probably IS having sex with another guy who does it for her, or WOULD if the right guy who attracts her came along..
Sure, lots of women will deny this, but let's look at their ACTIONS, not their WORDS, OK?
He had all the power in the relationship, because she had been in love with him for so much longer.