What you want to do is when you first meet someone is talk to them like you’re talking to an old friend. If you are excited about the person after you get to know her, then ask her out for a second date based on what intrigued you in the conversation.
So you have a fantasy about who this person is you’re going to be meeting based not only on their profile, but also from all the instant messages, text messages and phone chats you’ve had with them.
When you’re going to have your first in-person meeting with someone you met online, the first thing you need to do is to get the fantasy of that person out of your head.
Whatever that person wrote in their profile is just what they wrote.
In order to be successful at online dating, however, you need to avoid these seven key mistakes men make when they meet someone for the very first time.