Do yourself a favor and forget about the standard message.
If you don’t personalize your message at least a little bit she will instantly know that you just play the numbers game and that you write the same thing to every girl.
The first thing a woman sees when you send her a message on an online dating site is the subject line. Come on, you can be more creative than all the other guys who write a boring “hey”, “how are you” or “hello beautiful” in the subject line.
Be funny, be playful and make her want to open your message.
Alternately, hire a programmer to build the site -- this is much more expensive but allows the most customization options. Use your information from Steps 1 and 2 to determine the overall design for the dating website.
Navigation is the most important aspect of any website. Make getting a good balance between your revenue sources and the true purpose of the site a goal for every page.
For a dating website, the most important navigation controls are those that link to the profiles of others, profile creation tools or templates and chat. Red, for example, is associated with fiery love and passion, and may not be as appropriate for a website themed for "sweet" relationships. Do not let the ads on the site detract too much from member profiles. Upload the individual website pages to the Web host server and publish the site using the instructions for your specific website creation or editing software.