If things are unfolding too fast or he/she reveals way too much about themselves asking for sympathy or tugging your heartstrings, back up.Catfish scammers always make the first (and fast) moves because to them time really is money.First, you won't give it to him and second, to call me so you have the support I know you would need to break contact with him. Let me tell you, it was not easy, but it would have been harder if she hadn't had support from an objective source.
These men will often say they live in metropolitan cities in the US but their work takes them elsewhere in the world. and, of course, to wait for him because he can't wait to meet you. They will send you pictures of themselves and they're usually drop dead gorgeous. They are often shots of handsome models posing in hats, sunglasses, holding products like beer or wine standing in front of tall buildings in urban landscapes, or posing by expensive cars.
They'll tell you this is all the money the bank will give them and how their family members have invested too.
If they can’t or won’t agree that may be a red flag.
Check Facebook, Linked In and Google the person before you meet to see if the info matches their profile.
BY KITT WALSH Even at our age, when we are “supposed to know better,” our heads can get carried away by our hearts and we can find ourselves vulnerable to people who prey on others, via online dating scams.