Therefore, I have made it my mission over the last year to really decipher the online dating code. Your only goal in the first message is to assure her that you’re a normal guy. They don’t know you, they haven’t met you face-to-face, and they don’t want to get stuck on a bad date.— Want to fix your online dating profile and get more responses?
Always have fun with your messages and stay genuine. Just as I was going to drop you a line I logged in to check my okc messages. The singer girl wrote back, said she can meet for coffee this week.
Girls can sense you being fake and even if they don’t at first, they will when you meet. One of the girls from below also wrote back, and two other girls who visited my profile and I wrote to last night also wrote back.
To start, there’s one thing you should know that will greatly affect your response rates… I did a huge post about it and nearly all of the profiles I critique suffer from crappy photos. The guys don’t smile, are unkempt, and look like the dating site murderer (pictured above).
Seriously, your pictures are all a girl has to go on to determine whether or not you are an axe murderer/pedophile/stalker.
Make sure your spelling and grammar are perfect; sounding illiterate is a huge turnoff.