"He is married, you know."Megan isn't a homewrecker and by the time we made it back to Los Angeles, with the help of Tinder we found her another suitable match, Gary, 68, an accomplished businessman who lives in San Francisco, vacations in Palm Springs, and loves golf.
Gary was smitten over message and they met up in between Los Angeles and Palm Springs a few days later. Throughout the weekend, as I explained Megan's preferences to my college girlfriends in their early thirties, they made a face like they had swallowed sour milk and erupted in a chorus of, "That's gross," "ewwwww," and my personal favorite, "he's like my grandpa." To be fair, Uncle Jack was actually someone's grandpa.
"Images of an ex are stored along with thousands of other memories in your brain," she explains. Romance"), a Long Beach, California–based psychotherapist and author of , this dream could also be a red flag. "It's taboo, it's exciting, it's totally inappropriate—but those feelings can make it all the more sexy," she says.
"Just as men often dream about their high school glory days of a making a winning pass or basketball shot, women may relive those early days of exploration, romance and excitement."According to Tina B. "It may mean that a current experience has reminded you of the prior experience, or that you're trying to understand something from that old experience," she says, encouraging women to listen to what this dream may be trying to tell you. The Inappropriate Dream (About Your Friend's Husband! "You may be curious [on a subconscious level] about what it's like to be with him," she says. "A small bit of research suggests that these extramarital dreams may be more likely to be experienced by those who are in a bit of a sex rut." Take this dream, she says, as a sign that you need to try to reintroduce the passion into your relationship.
Dating men of any age presents its own unique set of challenges: In high school you get fumbling boys, confused about where to put their body parts in relation to yours, despite their over-eagerness for the proximity. If you manage to settle down with one in their thirties you'll still spend time tinkering with their training wheels, coaching them through their careers, mothering them, and turning them into the men they want to be.