Women, too, were blind to the mindset of their opposite-sex friends; because females generally were not attracted to their male friends, they assumed that this lack of attraction was mutual.
As a result, men consistently the level of attraction felt by their male friends.
Let’s say you wait six months and meet your old flame to get reacquainted. Group of Friends Attending a Football Game, 12pm – Low Risk2. Opposite sex friends who don’t want to end up as lovers avoid these topics.
There has to be a re-thinking of the ways that you interact. Women often have a remarkable ability to tell if two people have had a romantic past.
Jerry Seinfeld wisely observed that breaking up with someone was like trying to tip over a soda machine. Someone throws away a prominent career because they have fallen in love (or lust) with someone they shouldn’t.
Once it is moving and unstable only then you can push it over. It is difficult to tell another person, “I don’t want a romantic relationship with you.” Hearing it from someone else is clearly worse. The logic usually goes, “I do like her as a person. One night you’re out as friends, you have a couple of drinks, somebody leans in too close, and BAM! Only this situation is much more confusing, hurtful, and sad. It is hard to turn off romantic feelings You see it in the paper every day.
This person knows that it is a bad idea, but controlling our emotions in this way takes a discipline that most folks can’t muster. “Would she really come over and cook me dinner if she didn’t love me and want to be with me? Keeping it all straight can be a full-time job, and a single misinterpretation could lead to the backslide. Hope springs eternal and you need to move on One of the worst things that can happen to your dating life is getting hung up on someone who doesn’t love you. Each new person that comes your way and expresses interest is swiftly blown off, because you are desperately hoping you can rekindle the flame with your ex.