I have a friend who told me that when he masturbates, he says he only does it at the most once a month, (compare that with you or me doing it 3 to 5 times a week) hardly any semen comes out at all, I wonder why that is!!So like you do I enjoy stroking my very large and hairy penis and enjoy every minute of it as well. First of all if you feel so much of pain, then it would be good to have it discussed with a doctor or to a nurse.
Will someone of my age group advise if i am doing an excess? Eager Horse, I don't see any reason to refrain from masturbating at any age.
I'm 65 and masturbate at least 3-4 times per week, largely because our marriage has been totally celibate for nearly 25 years (not of my choosing, of course).
You will be free and discuss any problem you are facing in your life.
So take a good decision and have your problem treated soon enough.
You cannot feel free to talk to a relative as there are things to hide, if you talk all the things, then it would cause some family problems to raise.