It’s a very callous attitude toward sexual experiences.
But it seems like many students go into the hookup aware of this social contract, but then come out of it unable to uphold it and realizing that they do have feelings about what happened.
They end up feeling ashamed that they can’t be callous.
Q: Do you think men and women are differently affected by the new sexual norms?
Some of them are graduating college and realizing that they don’t know how to start a relationship in the absence of a hookup.