But outwardly, I was ultra-calm.“I don’t think I can be the person you do this with.
i was dating a bisexual - 28 year old man dating 16 year old
He was cute and stylish and we had enough things to talk about, so I was hopeful that, while I wasn’t looking for a relationship, the idea of going out with someone kind and not-weird for a while sounded pretty appealing.
And he followed up with polite texts and liked to make plans, so we did go out a few times. Which, interestingly enough, is the exact number of times it usually takes to go from “Should we sleep together? Maybe I should’ve known by his relative clumsiness at everything leading up to sex, but then, a lot of guys in their 20s are still pretty fumbly in that realm. It’s not that surprising -- with teen sex rates going down, there must be more 20-something virgins walking the earth, right?
This is how it went: After amicably (although profoundly sadly) ending my relationship with a man I loved very deeply, I hadto get my sea legs, so to speak.
But really what I ended up getting was my sea drunkness. Because damnit, I'm a confident 20something with a grown-ass job and it's Wednesday and I'm alive or whatever that quote from "Girls" is.
He was just very shy and very smart, and I think the combination successfully cockblocked him throughout college and well into a smart-person job that has almost no dating prospects.